Dear mom, thank you for celebrating my Autism

Dear Mom,

I want to take a moment to share how much your love and support have meant to me. Growing up autistic wasn't always easy, but you made sure I had the best possible environment to thrive. Your efforts to understand and support me were invaluable, and I want you to know just how much they've shaped my life.

You knew that understanding autism was key to helping me, so you dedicated yourself to learning about it. You took the time to understand my unique traits and how autism manifested in me. Instead of trying to change me, you celebrated my individuality and embraced the fact that being autistic is a part of who I am. That acceptance meant everything to me.

Communication was another area where you truly shined. You realized that I had different ways of expressing myself and you adapted. Whether it was using visual supports, social stories, or technology, you found ways to help me communicate comfortably. Your patience and willingness to meet me where I was made all the difference.

You also understood how overwhelming sensory overload could be for me. You created sensory-friendly spaces at home with dim lighting, soft textures, and noise reduction. These spaces became my sanctuary where I could recharge and feel safe. Your thoughtful design of our home environment showed how much you cared about my comfort.

Your advocacy was relentless. Whether it was at school, during extracurricular activities, or in public spaces, you made sure my needs were met. You fought for accommodations and ensured I had the support necessary to succeed. Your determination paved the way for my growth and development, and I can't thank you enough for that.

Routines and structure were crucial for me, and you recognized that. You established predictable schedules and clear expectations, which provided stability and reduced my anxiety. Knowing what to expect each day helped me navigate life with greater ease.

Social interactions can be tough for someone like me, but you facilitated opportunities that were tailored to my comfort level. You encouraged friendships with understanding peers and organized inclusive activities. Thanks to you, I was able to develop social skills and form meaningful connections.

You also taught me the importance of self-care. You modeled healthy coping strategies and encouraged me to engage in activities that brought me joy. You made sure to take care of yourself too, which was crucial for maintaining a positive and supportive environment at home.

Above all, your unconditional love and support have been the foundation of my growth. Your belief in my abilities, even during the toughest times, gave me the courage to embrace my autistic identity with confidence. Your support has been my constant source of strength.

Thank you, Mom, for everything you've done and continue to do. I hope other autism parents learn from you. I wish there was better support for you too. 

With all my love,

Shaily